Overcoming Obstacles

Hurt is something that each person deals and copes with in a different way. I would like to start off by stating that you can be the one causing yourself hurt, as well as others. Or someone could be hurting you. The big step that is the toughest one to overcome is moving on. This applies in all cases where you feel like you have been done wrong by.

In the case where you could be causing yourself hurt and others I would like to give an example. A person who is struggling with addiction is distancing themselves from their family members. The family who is trying to help the addicted individual are being pushed away. This causes both parties to be hurt. And makes it hard for any resolution to discovered.

The second case of a person hurting you. Just to go out of their way to make your life a little less important. An example would be the bully taking the victims lunch money because the bully knows that he or she can get away with it. This example is also makes it hard to obtain a resolution.

Whether you are being hurt, hurting someone, or know someone who is being hurt. Please get help. Don't leave it until you are so swallowed with sadness and anger. Don't leave it until you get desperat. Go to a therapist, counseller, friend, mother, father, teacher.  Let yourself breathe by giving yourself oxygen.

Make sure that you think about what things you have to look forward to living for. If that is difficult think of waking up on a bright winter morning. Imagine waking up and seeing the sun shining off of the snowy peaks. Imagine breathing in the fresh crips air. There is hope for everyone, and my hope is that everyone can wake up in the morning knowing that they are beautiful.

Keep smiling,

Miss Schneider